Sacraments

Please find below information about the Sacramental life of our Parish.

Infant Baptism

“Request for Infant Baptism” forms are available at the back of each church all year round. Forms should be completed and returned to Father Andrew after any of the weekend Masses.

Once he has seen you and countersigned the form, the parish administrator will be in touch with you to arrange your baptismal preparation course and a date, time and venue for your child’s Baptism.

The Baptism Preparation Course takes place in Holy Trinity Parish Hall usually three times a year.

 

Adult Baptism

If you are an adult and wish to receive the Sacrament of Baptism please complete a ‘Journey in Faith’ registration form available from each of our church porches.

Following the ‘Journey in Faith’ preparation programme, you will then be baptised at the Easter Vigil in the Holy Night unless there are extenuating circumstances and an alternate, appropriate date agreed.

 

Reconciliation

The Sacrament of Reconciliation is usually available before the Wednesday and Friday evening Masses, the Vigil Mass on Saturdays, before the 9:00 am Mass on Sunday, after all Masses, and on request at St. Mary’s Presbytery.

 

First Reconciliation and First Holy Communion

Parents/carers of children who are in Key Stage 2 or older may wish to enrol on the preparation programme which runs from September to June each year. Registration usually begins in June/July and forms are currently available from the back of each church and should be returned no later than Sunday 8th September 2024.

 

Confirmation

The Confirmation program runs every two years and is open to everyone in Key Stage 3 or older. Forms are currently available from the back of each church and should be returned no later than Sunday 8th September 2024.

If you are an adult and wish to receive the Sacrament of Confirmation please complete a ‘Journey in Faith’ registration form available from each of our church porches.

Following the ‘Journey in Faith’ preparation programme, you will then be confirmed at the Easter Vigil in the Holy Night unless there are extenuating circumstances and an alternate, appropriate date agreed.

 

Marriage

God the Father has created marriage as a mutual and exclusive covenant between one man and one woman, by which they establish between themselves a loving and intimate partnership of their whole life, which of its own nature is ordered both to the well-being of the spouses themselves and to the procreation and education of children. It is a true vocation entered into for life, for what God has joined together no one can put asunder. Our Lord Jesus Christ has raised marriage between two baptised people to the dignity of a sacrament. The Church welcomes with joy those who wish to marry in accordance with her teaching. At the same time, the Church is aware of the many pressures of modern life which can endanger their commitment, their relationship and their family life. She is constantly concerned to help those who wish to marry to be prepared as fully as they can be to make this loving and lifelong commitment.

For this reason:

  • A couple who wish to marry should speak Fr Andrew at least six months before their proposed wedding date, and should not make any other arrangements concerning their wedding until they have spoken to him.
  • Fr Andrew is responsible for preparing couples for marriage, and all those preparing for marriage meet him and take part in a marriage preparation course run by Marriage Care.
  • Any marriage involving a Catholic should be celebrated in their parish church. With the permission of their parish priest, the marriage may be celebrated in another parish. A marriage between a Catholic and a non-Catholic may only be celebrated in a non-Catholic church with a dispensation, which will only be granted for a serious reason.

All couples preparing for marriage need and are entitled to receive the support of the Church, so that they will be strengthened by the Holy Spirit as they prepare for, celebrate, and live out the commitment which they will make at their wedding. The Church thanks all those married people who show great constancy and faithfulness in their vocation, and prays that their example may inspire all who are preparing to marry.

 

Sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick

Provided that it is safe to do so, Father Andrew will always see parishioners in the Diana Princess of Wales Hospital, other care settings, their own homes or St Mary’s Presbytery if they are seriously ill, or due to be admitted to hospital, and would like to receive the Sacraments of Reconciliation and Anointing of the Sick.

You should not wait until someone’s death is imminent before contacting Father Andrew, lest there be hurt or embarrassment because he is simply unable to visit someone who is sick or dying in good time.

If you or a relative are in hospital, please ask a nurse to ask switchboard to contact the Catholic chaplain; if you or a relative are in other care settings, please ask a member of staff to contact the parish office (01472 342301; office@holytrinitygci.uk); if you or a relative are at home, please contact the parish office.

Services – throughout the year several services are held for the sick and housebound. If you would like to attend, contact the parish office for more information.

Infant Baptism

Preparation courses for the parents take place in Holy Trinity Parish Hall usually three times a year. You will be invited to attend one once your “Request for Infant Baptism” form is completed, returned to Father Andrew after any of the weekend Masses and countersigned by him.

First Reconciliation and First Holy Communion

Parents/carers of children who are in Key Stage 2 or older may wish to enrol on the preparation programme which runs from September to June each year. Registration usually begins in June/July and forms are currently available from the back of each church and should be returned no later than Sunday 8th September 2024.

Confirmation

The Confirmation program runs every two years and is open to everyone in Key Stage 3 or older. Forms are currently available from the back of each church and should be returned no later than Sunday 8th September 2024.

RCIA (Journey in Faith)

If you are an adult and not a Catholic or have not received all the sacraments of initiation (Baptism, Holy Communion & Confirmation), the Journey in Faith course runs every year from October to April to prepare individuals to receive the Sacraments of Initiation or be received into the Church.

The course is also open to anyone who would just like to learn some more about the Catholic Faith.

‘Journey in Faith’ forms are available from the back of each church to be returned by 6th October.

Marriage

A couple who wish to marry should speak Fr Andrew at least six months before their proposed wedding date, and should not make any other arrangements concerning their wedding until they have spoken to him.

Fr Andrew is responsible for preparing couples for marriage, and all those preparing for marriage meet him and take part in a marriage preparation course run by Marriage Care.

Please click below to see sample versions of the Sacramental Preparation Forms. These are only sample versions so please ensure you complete one of the forms available from the back of our three Churches.

Infant Baptism

First Reconciliation & First Holy Communion

Confirmation

RCIA (Journey In Faith)

The Catholic Church accepts seven Sacraments which ‘touch all the stages and all the important moments of Christian life’ (Catechism of the Catholic Church 1210) and can be classified in 3 groups:

Sacraments of Initiation: Baptism, Confirmation, and Eucharist

Sacraments of Healing: Reconciliation and Anointing of the Sick

Sacraments at the Service of Communion: Holy Orders and Matrimony

The Sacraments, instituted by Christ and entrusted to the Church, are the means by which divine life is dispensed to humanity. When a child is baptised or a couple is married there is an effect, however, the sacraments are not ‘magic’ meaning that regardless of what we do or how we live they universally bear fruit. Rather, they truly bear fruit when received with the right dispositions, preparation and intention (CCC 1131).

Just as our Lord Jesus Christ put on human flesh to draw close to us, it is fitting that the Sacraments are also expressed through tangible things, such as bread, wine, water, oil, and the human voice. The Church – as the Body of Christ – dispenses these Sacraments for the life of her members (CCC 1117-1118).

Baptism

Holy Baptism is the basis of the whole Christian life, the gateway to life in the Spirit, and the door which gives access to the other sacraments – CCC 1213

For Catholics, the Sacrament of Baptism is the first step in a lifelong journey of commitment and discipleship. Baptism is the first sacrament of Christian initiation. Through Baptism we are freed from sin and are embraced into the family of the Church.

The origin and foundation of Christian Baptism is Jesus. Before starting his public ministry, Jesus submitted himself to the baptism given by John the Baptist. The waters did not purify him; he cleansed the waters. because he was totally faithful to the will of his Father and free from sin, Jesus did not need to be baptised However, he wanted to show his solidarity us and to reconcile us to the Father.

By commanding his disciples to baptise all nations, he established the means by which people would die to sin – Original and actual – and begin to live a new life with God.

Baptism transforms us. It marks our soul for life and eternity. In baptism, the Holy Spirit moves us to answer Christ’s call to holiness. In baptism, we are asked to walk by the light of Christ and to trust in his wisdom. We are invited to submit our hearts to Christ with ever deeper love.

Although as Catholics we believe that every human being is made in the image and likeness of God, it is through baptism we become sons and daughters of God and are brought into that most mysterious communion with Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.

 

The Rite of Baptism

Through Baptism we are freed from sin and reborn as sons and daughters of God; we become members of Christ, are incorporated into the Church and made sharers in her mission: ‘Baptism is the Sacrament of regeneration through water in the Word.’’ Catechism of the Catholic Church, 1213

The Rite of Baptism involves immersing the candidate in water or pouring it over his/her head, while invoking the Name of the Holy Trinity: Father, Son, and Holy Spirit (CCC 1278).

If you are not Catholic but have received Baptism as described above, we consider your baptism valid. So, you will not be baptised again if you choose to join the Catholic Church. Rather, you will be initiated into full communion with us through the Sacraments of Confirmation and Eucharist.

 

Want to receive the Sacrament of Baptism?

Baptism is a Sacrament of faith, and the Church asks for a serious and loving commitment by the parents and godparents of a child to live the life of the Sacraments. The baptism ceremony for adults and teens is similar to baptism of children except that you make the baptismal promises yourself. Instead of godparents, adults have sponsors whose role is to encourage you in the Catholic Faith.

For children aged 6 and below:

  • At least one parent should be a practising Catholic
  • Parent(s) to attend Infant Baptism preparation sessions at the parish
  • Either one godparent, or two (one male and one female), who is a confirmed Catholic over the age of 16

Contact your parish for more information and assistance in your preparations. If you are seeking baptism in a parish other than the one in which you live, you ought to contact your own parish priest in the first instance.

For children aged 7 to 18:

  • Contact your parish priest for more information

For adults:

If you would like to be baptised as an adult you will need to participate in some instruction, individually or through the Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults (RCIA). Traditionally adult baptisms take place during the ceremony of the Easter Vigil. In some parishes, therefore, you might be asked to wait for Easter for Baptism.

Confirmation

Baptism, the Eucharist, and the sacrament of Confirmation together constitute the ‘sacraments of Christian initiation’, whose unity must be safeguarded. It must be explained to the faithful that the reception of the sacrament of Confirmation is necessary for the completion of baptismal grace. For ‘by the sacrament of Confirmation, [the baptized] are more perfectly bound to the Church and are enriched with a special strength of the Holy Spirit. Hence they are, as true witnesses of Christ, more strictly obliged to spread and defend the faith by word and deed’ – CCC1285 (cf. Lumen Gentium 11)

At Baptism, we begin a life-long journey and a way of life. At Confirmation, the graces received in Baptism are sealed with the reception of the seven Gifts of the Holy Spirit.  The words that Jesus shared with his disciples at Pentecost apply to each one of us at Confirmation, you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you; and you will be my witnesses (Acts 1:8).

The Sacrament of Confirmation is typically received by children, who are at least twelve years of age, baptised, and prepared with the help of the parish community. Confirmation is administered by the Bishop and, on rare occasions, by a priest delegated by the Bishop.

Anointed and Gifted

The prophets of the Old Testament foretold that God’s Spirit would rest upon the Messiah to sustain his mission. Their prophecy was fulfilled when Jesus, the Messiah (Christ), was conceived by the Spirit and born of the Virgin Mary. The Holy Spirit descended on Jesus on the occasion of his baptism by John. Jesus’ entire mission occurred in communion with the Spirit. Before he died, Jesus promised that the Spirit would be given to the Apostles and to the entire Church.  After his death, he was raised by the Father in the power of the Spirit.

The Sacrament of Confirmation confers ‘the full outpouring of the Holy Spirit as once granted to the apostles on the day of Pentecost (CCC 1302)’. As such, Confirmation is ordinarily administered by the bishop, who is the successor of the apostles.

Confirmation deepens our baptismal life that calls us to be missionary witnesses of Jesus Christ in our families, neighbourhoods, society, and the world.

In the Sacrament of Confirmation, we receive the gifts of the Holy Spirit: wisdom, knowledge, right judgment, understanding, courage, piety, and fear of the Lord. In this way, the Sacrament of Confirmation completes the Sacrament of Baptism (see CCC 1303).

The Rite of Confirmation

In the Rite of Confirmation, the Bishop traces the Oil of Holy Chrism on the candidate’s forehead in the shape of the cross. This recalls Christ’s title as ‘the Anointed’. In the Old Testament, we also read about the anointing of priests, prophets, and kings: Then Samuel took the horn of oil, and anointed him in the presence of his brothers; and the spirit of the Lord came mightily upon David from that day forward (1 Samuel 16:13)

In Baptism, we receive an anointing (which cleanses and strengthens us for the Christian life), the anointing then received in Confirmation acts as a consecration, a setting apart for mission (CCC 1294).

Eucharist

The Eucharist is ‘the source and summit of the Christian life.’ The other sacraments, [and indeed all other aspects of the Church’s life], are bound up with the Eucharist and are oriented toward it. For in the blessed Eucharist is contained the whole spiritual good of the Church, namely Christ himself’ – CCC 1324

Reception of the Eucharist for the first time completes a person’s reception of the Sacraments of Initiation into the Christian life. The Eucharist brings about our intimate union with Jesus Christ because it is a sacrament of love, with his Church because it is a sign of unity and with the very presence of the risen Christ who shares his life with us.

As Jesus told us, ‘Those who eat my flesh and drink my blood abide in me, and I in them’ (John 6:56).

The Sacrament of the Eucharist, which we receive at Mass, is the real physical and spiritual presence of Jesus Christ. As Catholics, we take Jesus at his word when he says ‘This is my body, which is given for you’ (Luke 22:19). Another way of putting this is that we believe in the Real Presence. We believe that Jesus Christ is ‘present in a true, real, and substantial manner: his Body and his Blood, with his soul and his divinity (CCC 1413).’ When we compare the man who walked the earth some two thousand years ago with the consecrated Bread and Wine, the only difference is the outward appearance, the underlying reality is Jesus Christ our Lord.

Such is the intimacy that Christ desires with each one of us!In this union with Christ, we also have communion with all our brothers and sisters spread throughout the world (CCC 1398).

The Church celebrates the sacrifice of the Mass daily, but Catholics are obliged only to attend Mass on Sundays and on other Holy days of obligation. For this is how we observe the Lord’s Day, by gathering around his table as one family.

Want to receive the Sacrament of the Eucharist (Holy Communion)?

You have been baptised or received into the Catholic Church

Children should have made their First Holy Communion, this typically takes place around the age of 7 years old after a period of preparation in the parish and in the home.

You have fasted for one hour beforehand. (Water and medicine do not break your fast.)

You are not in an irregular marital situation, e.g. civilly married without Church endorsement

You have not knowingly committed serious sins since your last confession. All serious sins must be absolved through the Sacrament of Reconciliation before receiving the Eucharist

If you are cannot receive the Eucharist for any reason, you may make a Spiritual Communion asking God to grant you the graces of the Sacrament.

‘When we receive Holy Communion, we receive our joy and our happiness … The good God, wishing to give Himself to us in the Sacrament of His love, gave us a vast and great desire, which He alone can satisfy’ (St John Vianney).

Reconciliation

Scriptural Foundation: On the evening of the first day of the week, Jesus appeared to his apostles. He breathed on them and said, “Receive the Holy Spirit. If you forgive the sins of any, they are forgiven; if you retain the sins of any, they are retained” (John 20:19, 22-23).

Understanding Reconciliation: Reconciliation, officially known as the Sacrament of Penance and Reconciliation or Confession, is the sacrament through which we receive forgiveness from Christ. In this sacrament, we repent and confess our sins, and are absolved through the ministry of a priest, who acts in the person of Christ when he pronounces the words, “I absolve you from your sins in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.”

The Importance of Confession: Sin harms our relationship with God, the Church, and one another. Confession is essential because it is the normal means by which we can be forgiven for serious sins committed after Baptism. This sacrament reconciles us with God and, simultaneously, with the Church, which is also affected by our sins.

The Church Fathers described the Sacrament of Reconciliation as the “second plank” after Baptism, which we can rely on when we are shipwrecked by sin and the loss of grace (CCC 1446).

Benefits of Regular Confession: Regular confession helps us draw closer to Christ and develop a mature conscience. The act of confessing brings healing and relief from the burden of sin. This sacrament helps us remember that we cannot live without God: “In him we live and move and have our being” (Acts 17:28).

Moreover, the Sacrament of Reconciliation not only frees us from our sins but also encourages us to extend compassion and forgiveness to those who sin against us. It empowers us to be forgivers. As St. Francis of Assisi once said, “It is in pardoning that we are pardoned.”

The Four Parts of the Sacrament of Reconciliation

  1. Contrition: A sincere sorrow for having offended God, accompanied by a firm resolve not to repeat the sin.
  2. Confession: Acknowledging our sins before God by speaking them aloud to the priest. To make a fruitful Confession, prepare by examining your conscience and reflecting on your sins and their causes.
  3. Penance: An essential part of our healing involves performing the penance (prayer or sacrifice) that the priest assigns in reparation for our sins.
  4. Absolution: The priest pronounces the words that reconcile us to God and absolve us from our sins.

A Sacrament of Healing: There should be no fear in Confession. It is an encounter with God’s loving mercy and is rightly described as a sacrament of healing.

St. Jean-Marie Vianney said, “…we cannot comprehend the goodness of God towards us in instituting this great Sacrament of Penance. If we had had a favor to ask of Our Lord, we should never have thought of asking him that. But he foresaw our frailty and our inconstancy in well-doing, and his love induced him to do what we should not have dared to ask.”

Anointing of the sick

Illness can lead to anguish, self-absorption, sometimes even despair and revolt against God. It can also make a person more mature, helping him discern in his life what is not essential so that he can turn toward that which is. Very often illness provokes a search for God and a return to him – CCC 1501

Understanding the Anointing of the Sick: The Sacrament of Anointing of the Sick is given with the hope that, if it is God’s will, the person may be physically healed of their illness. However, the primary effect of this sacrament is spiritual healing. The sick person receives the Holy Spirit’s gift of peace and courage to face the difficulties that come with serious illness or the frailty of old age.

Jesus’ Healing Touch: In the Sacrament of Anointing of the Sick, administered by a priest, it is Jesus who reaches out to heal the sick. This sacrament reflects Jesus’ mission to conquer sin and death through his death and resurrection, offering comfort and hope to those who are suffering.

When to Receive the Sacrament: The Sacrament of the Sick is typically administered in situations involving an immediate prospect of surgery, significant age, or danger of death. However, it is not necessary to wait until the person is at the point of death to receive the sacrament. A careful judgment about the seriousness of the illness is sufficient, making it appropriate for both children and adults.

Sacrament of the Sick in Scripture: The Sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick is first mentioned in Mark 6:13, where the apostles anointed many sick people with oil and healed them. James elaborates in his epistle: “Is any among you sick? Let him call for the presbyters of the Church, and let them pray over him, anointing him with oil in the name of the Lord; and the prayer of faith will save the sick man, and the Lord will raise him up; and if he has committed sins, he will be forgiven.” – James 5:14-15

Receiving the Sacrament of Anointing of the Sick

To receive the Sacrament of Anointing of the Sick, you must meet the following criteria:

  • Baptised or Received into the Catholic Church: You must be a baptised Catholic or have been received into the Catholic Church.
  • Condition of Severe Illness: You can receive the Anointing of the Sick whenever you are severely ill, and you can receive it more than once.
  • Non-Catholic Christians: Non-Catholic Christians can request the Anointing if they are in danger of death and cannot approach a minister from their own community.

If you or someone you know needs this sacrament, you are encouraged to contact the parish office. The sacrament provides spiritual strength and peace during times of illness and can be a profound source of comfort and grace.

Holy Orders

Continuing the Apostolic Ministry: Through Holy Orders, the Church perpetuates the ministry entrusted by Jesus Christ to his apostles, carrying it forward from generation to generation until the end of time (CCC 1536).

In Scripture, we read of St. Paul conferring the gift of the Holy Spirit and the faculties of this apostolic ministry to Timothy through the laying on of hands (1 Timothy 4:14). The Catholic Church, alongside the Orthodox churches, has maintained this tradition of apostolic succession since the first apostles.

Three Degrees of Holy Orders: There are three orders within the Sacrament of Holy Orders: Diaconate (Deacon), Presbyterate (Priest), and Episcopate (Bishop).

Diaconate

Role and Duties: A deacon (Greek: diakonos) is the ordinary minister of Baptism and may lead wedding and funeral services. Deacons also preach at Mass and provide pastoral care. They often take the lead in the charitable works of the parish.

Presbyterate

Role and Duties: In addition to the duties of a deacon, a priest (Greek: presbuteros) may celebrate Mass, hear Confessions, and anoint the sick. With delegation from his Bishop, a priest may also confer Confirmation. Each parish is typically overseen by a priest or a group of priests.

Episcopate

Role and Duties: A Bishop (Greek: episkopos) is a successor to the apostles and holds the fullness of the Sacrament of Holy Orders. Bishops have the authority to celebrate all seven sacraments, with unique responsibilities to ordain priests and deacons and to confer Confirmation as the apostle in the diocese.

Priesthood

The Bible affirms that Jesus Christ is the “one mediator between God and men” (2 Timothy 2:5). This singular priesthood of Jesus Christ is made present through the ministerial priesthood of those called to the presbyterate. St. Thomas Aquinas noted, “Only Christ is the true priest, the others being only his ministers” (CCC 1545).

The lay faithful participate in another kind of priesthood, the common priesthood, by virtue of their baptism. The ministerial priesthood serves the common priesthood, aiming to unfold the baptismal grace of all Christians (CCC 1547).

In the Roman tradition, priests observe celibacy for the sake of the kingdom of heaven (Matthew 19:12). They consecrate themselves with undivided hearts to the Lord and his work (1 Corinthians 7:32), dedicating themselves entirely to God and his people (CCC 1579).

Ordination to the priesthood is a divine call and gift. Jesus reminded his apostles to pray for labourers for the harvest. Those who seek priesthood respond generously to God’s call, echoing the prophet’s words, “Here I am, send me” (Isaiah 6:8). This call is recognised through the discernment of the candidate’s vocation by those in charge.

Becoming a Priest

The journey to priesthood involves a strong sense of calling and extensive preparation through seminary training. Post-ordination, priests have opportunities for further training and formation provided by the diocese.

Becoming a Permanent Deacon

Requirements: You must be at least 25 years old and willing to commit to lifelong celibacy if unmarried, or at least 35 years old if married, with your wife’s consent. You must be a practicing Catholic male who has received the sacraments of Christian initiation (Baptism, Confirmation, Holy Eucharist). If discerning a call to the diaconate, please contact the parish office.

Becoming a Priest

Requirements: You must be an unmarried male, a practicing Catholic who has received the sacraments of Christian initiation, and accepted into a formation program by your bishop. Seminarians can be ordained as deacons at 23 and must wait six months before ordination to the priesthood.

Becoming a Bishop

Requirements: You must be a priest, at least 35 years old, and have received a letter of appointment from the Pope.

Holy Matrimony

The Sacrament of Matrimony signifies the union of Christ and the Church. It gives spouses the grace to love each other with the love with which Christ has loved his Church; the grace of the sacrament thus perfects the human love of the spouses, strengthens their indissoluble unity, and sanctifies them on the way to eternal life – CCC 1661

Marriage in Scripture: Scripture begins with the creation and union of man and woman and culminates with “the wedding feast of the Lamb” (Revelation 19:7, 9). Jesus inaugurated his public ministry at the wedding of Cana, transforming water into wine. This underscores the profound significance of marriage, revealing something about God’s relationship with humanity. Throughout Scripture, marriage is frequently referenced, highlighting its divine origin, purpose, and renewal through the covenant made by Jesus with his Church. Man and woman were created for each other, reflecting God’s design.

The Covenant of Marriage: The Sacrament of Marriage is a covenant, which transcends a mere contract. A covenant signifies a deep, personal relationship. In marriage, this covenant denotes the relationship between husband and wife—a permanent union wherein they can know and love each other and God. The celebration of marriage is a liturgical act, ideally conducted in a public liturgy within the church. Catholics are encouraged to celebrate their marriage within the Eucharistic Liturgy.

A Sacrament of Love: Through their marriage, couples witness Christ’s spousal love for the Church. One of the Nuptial Blessings in the liturgical celebration of marriage articulates this: “Father, you have made the union of man and wife so holy a mystery that it symbolises the marriage of Christ and his Church.”

In Holy Matrimony, husband and wife are called to mirror Christ by giving themselves in a manner that is free, total, faithful, and fruitful. The matrimonial union is indissoluble (Matthew 19:4-6, Mark 10:7-9), reflecting Christ’s unwavering love for us despite our shortcomings.

Marriage calls couples to be open to life, welcoming it as a gift and bringing it into the world. God designed marital love as a means of expressing intimacy and openness to the gift of life. Marriage is the institution through which children are welcomed, loved, and come to know their heavenly Father. Through marriage preparation, the Church helps couples discern this beautiful vocation, which involves growing in unity and cooperating with God in creating His children.

What Makes a Catholic Marriage?

  • Sacredness: Marriage is not merely a human agreement; it is a covenant before and under God (Genesis 2:22).
  • Intimacy: Marriage unites a man and woman in a “one-flesh” union (Genesis 2:23-25), involving “leaving” one’s family and “being united” to one’s spouse in unconditional, selfless, and life-giving love.
  • Mutuality: Marriage is a relationship of free self-giving between a man and a woman (Ephesians 5:25-30), centred on the well-being of the other, requiring steadfast love, devotion, and forgiveness.
  • Exclusiveness: Marriage is a permanent, sacred, intimate, and exclusive relationship (Genesis 2:22-25; 1 Corinthians 7:2-5), with no other human relationship interfering with the marriage commitment.

Want to Receive the Sacrament of Holy Matrimony (Marriage)?

  • Eligibility: You must be free to marry. Those in irregular marital situations (e.g., civil divorce) should first seek advice from their parish priest.
  • Notice Period: Diocesan policy typically requires at least six months’ notice of marriage at the parish closest to the Catholic party. This allows sufficient time for necessary paperwork and preparation.
  • Preparation Course: Attend a marriage preparation course approved by the Church to ensure readiness for this sacrament.

For more information or guidance, contact your local parish office. The Church is committed to supporting couples in understanding and living out the vocation of marriage, ensuring it is a source of grace and fulfilment.